A Woman's Guide to Mentorship - How to Find The Right Mentor and More
What is Mentorship?
The idea of mentorship is a broad concept. Some mentees look for high involvement and networking while others simply look for a helping hand. Regardless, a mentorship is created to mutually benefit the two parties. A mentor can be any professional who is seasoned enough to guide you through your interests. Finding one can be easy using three simple steps.
How to find a mentor: 4 Easy Steps
1. Brainstorm
Not sure where to start? To get a mentorship you must understand what you want out of one. Take some time to jot down your career goals (networking, hands-on experience, introductory knowledge of a field, etc.) and how you envision getting there. Also keep in mind the type of mentor you want.
2. Ask
The initial ask is the hardest step but can be a lot less intimidating than most think. Mentorships can be obtained through direct relations, mutual connections or a formal introduction. Here are some great resources to use:
1. Teachers
2. Professors (if not at your university, then of colleges nearby)
3. Other peer’s who’ve had mentorships
4. Adult friends
5. A retired person from the field
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Most introductions will happen through an email in which you can introduce yourself and background relating to the field, why you are reaching out and if it’s possible to set up a meeting time.
To keep commitments simple, be sure to set a meeting intention on the potential mentor’s story rather than mentioning a mentorship. This will give you the opportunity to judge if they’re a good fit and increase their chances of saying yes to that first meeting.
3. Nurture
It’s important to put your best foot forward with a mentorship as success in one can be life-changing. Take the time to reflect on your learning and ask plenty of questions. The more you can let the mentor share, the more you can learn. Towards the end of your mentorship, ask if you can be pointed towards any internship or other work opportunities in the field. Chances are, their network can be vital for a future job.
4. Maintain
A mentorship is a rare mutual connection that can be both professional and informal. After spending time with your mentor, don’t forget to follow up with them and keep them updated with your journey. Ask them about theirs and if the mentor is open to it, feel free to point other mentees in their direction to keep the success stories going! And of course, be sure to express your gratitude in thanking your mentor.
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About the Author: Shivani joined the Women Who Win team in June 2022, with an interest in interviewing women leaders in business and philanthropy. She is currently a sophomore at Babson College, and a Youth Ambassador for Akshaya Patra Foundation. She is also a talented dancer. She loves Women Who Win because of how diverse the platform is. She writes, “they prove that women can win in every field.”